E-Journal 5: Food & Table Manners (Updated)

Published on 28 April 2025 at 20:29

 Food & Table Manners : Is it Black Culture or Southern Culture?

 I'm not quite sure if it's apart of black culture or if it's apart of southern culture. Southern Hospitality has always been engraved in people since they were young. I'm fairly certain this a regional thing.

Here are some examples I can think of. 

 

1.Pushing seats out for others. It wasn't a sign of weakness but to push a seat out at the dinner table is supposed to be honorable or a way to show your respect toward the person.

2. Let the guest fix their plates first. The host family is supposed to wait last and it's important to sample at least everything on the plate.  During hard times where my grandparents lived, they didn't have a choice in what to eat because of financial reasons. So you either ate what was fixed or you starved. 

 

3. 'Pardon My reach' is a phrase we use before picking up something and rotating your arm over someone else's body to reach it.  You're getting in there way and inconvenience  the person by getting in there way. It also symbolizes a lack of patience and greed.

 

 

How many Items Do you Know?

 

1. How many of these items do you know?

 

 I think I counted 35-36 foods in total.  I got 16 out of 36.  As a food lover, Some foods I literally forget by name but can recognize them in pictures. I tasted this empanada shaped pastry in Spain. It had sugar coded on top and apple filling. I still can't find the name of it. 

 

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  • black pudding - I eat this all the time. English breakfast is one of my favs.
  • Pavlova- Heard of it.
  • Marmite- haven't tried but its from Austrailia.
  • Dulce de leche- tired
  • Nutella- tried, Italy
  • Quince cheese- Tried
  • empanadas - I feel like this one is a trick question....Empanadas are everywhere in Latin America and all have a distinct taste,  They're the love of my life.
  • Gnocchi - Italy, Tried.
  • Cuban tortilla- Tried, Cuba
  • ropa vieja - Tried....at Valliarta. 
  • couscous- Tried the creole version.
  • falafel- Middle eastern region and I eat these way too often
  • ceviche - Tried, Mexico
  • pupusas - El Salvador and I love pupusas
  • Shwarma- I would be sad if I didn't know this. Shwarma wraps are amazing. (Middle East Region)
  • biryani (Heard of and I eat it every other month. Lamb biryani rice is bomb)
  • ugali- This one rings a bell.
  • poori bhaji- I would say India but I feel like it would be accessible in other South Asian countries as well. ( No, I haven't tried)
  • Sunday roast - England (Yes, I've tried)

Is there an international etiquette for table manners?

 There isn't an international etiquette because we look at our own culture as the norm.  The chapter discusses how Spaniards don't eat until 2p.m.  A mistake that I have admittedly made is assuming that places had open seating despite  having a reservation only culture. As an American I assumed that everyone will let in more people if they have enough room. "It's just a suggestion" It wasn't a suggestion. 

 

If an exchange student from Spain or Portugal is coming to our college and is expected to be your roommate, what would you share with the student as potential differences between the US and the student country of origin?

 I would let them know of our different eating schedules. For example, restaurants do not close until midnight in Spain and Portugal , sometimes until they are out of food. Unless you are a whole in the wall business then they might close at 8. But I would left them know that most places close at 9pm and 10 pm in the U.S. Fast food is the only resort if they want to eat that late. There's also a sense of rushing. Hearing "Are you ready for your check or Do you need anything else?" Might sound pushy to them because they like to take their time.  Lunch is to relax and enjoy , even in the most populated parts like Lisbon people will enjoy their meal and not be rushed.  A  waiter could easily come off as pushy.

How are soups served differently in different countries?r add subheadings to create an overview

 in Japan,  Food isn't meant to indulge but to only satisfy you and refresh you for the day.  You don't live to eat. You eat to live. Miso Soup is served for breakfast, lunch, dinner, and during any snack time.  The style of miso varies with the region. 

If you were at a cocktail party organized by the university and there are several countries represented, who would you aim at establishing small talk with? Why? By who, I mean people from what countries

 I thinkk I would start with Falculty & Staff members or people who are  in their sixies or seventies. They have so much knowledge and experience; it's always the right move to speak to the oldest person in the room.  Especially in social circles.

Is there any information on the assigned pages that relate to your target country? Which ones? If not, are there general guidelines that can be helpful if you travel now to your target country?

 The French believe less is more and love to savor their food.  Elaborate small plates is a lot more classy and upscale then three big meals.  Because you're not supposed to eat until you're stuffed.  You're not supposed to live to eat. Eat to live is more important when it comes to rules of consumption.  à l’oignon  is actually a dish I've been prepping to make this week for lunch. Onion soup is considered a peasant meal or poor man's meal in France because it's affordable yet so delicious. There's also street food like crepes, chouquettes, and other snacks you can get throughout the day. Snacks  are a big deal in France but never overindulge. I think that the most affordable choices are hole in the wall restaurants where you can get a crepe for 2 euros because French cuisine is expensive and I've been looking up what university students eat and cook for themselves to survie in France. 

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